the model of Infinite Living and the Art of Self-Reflection teaches

How our current emotional and physical reality is based on our perceptions and beliefs about the world we live in.

E = R = O

Personalized self-reflection tools and stress response techniques.

How to envision a pleasurable life and create that life through strategies and accountability.

The Art of Self-Reflection.

When I was creating my private practice and reflecting on the core element of my personal healing journey, I realized the pivotal practice was distilled to paying attention to my beleifs, thoughts and choices. Being aware of how each choice led to an outcome and learning what subconscious beliefs steered those thoughts and choices. I would ask myself why I was thinking, feeling, and acting that way. I would watch myself get triggered and then do my best to figure out why...what needs were being met by that emotional reaction and what needs weren't being met by the situation or event that caused the trigger. I would monitor my emotions in situations and around certain people and figure out why I reacted in the way I did.

I would think, journal, talk, walk, read, and then read some more. I was desperate to be "happy" and moreover to figure out why I was unhappy - especially as I seemed to have a life that people around me admired.

So when I reflected on my healing journey I realized that self reflection has been one of the most important take aways these past 30 years.

because the Art part is you deciding what works for you - and that only happens when you are presented with many options...options are a great thing. Back in the 1970's when I was in elementary school I remember starting out with an 8 colour pack of crayons. At the time because I didn't know any better the selection was enough. But with each new grade and passing year the pack expanded to 12 and then 24 and eventually 48 different colour variations.... which sure made colouring more entertaining as I got older. 

Healing modalities seem to be at 48 colours and 

I teach women how to artfully self reflect on their thoughts, choices, and behaviour patterns  ...

  • so as to remove the gap between the life they want and the life they currently have (canyon model0

  • ...essentially to remodel their life

  • to empower them to achieve the life they want 

  • to unlock and remove emotional trauma and increase healthy life patterns

  • stop limiting beliefs

  • allows them to quickly remodel their life and increase emotional power

  • to create a life that is more fulfilling and easily flows to a remodeled life that brings relief

  • to move to the experience of happiness and joy in your life

  • based on your wisdom and not on your history

you have remodelled your home but you are still nlot happy- perhaps its time to remodel your life.

The art of self reflection uncovers the root cause of what is limitin you in your life, then focuses on discovery of what kind of life you want instead.

Reflect, reveal, re-learn, and revive

"Revealed preference" is what you say you want vs what you actualloy do. Its an economic term.

Reflect on why youare disatisfied with your life an dwhy. Uncover what is going wrong, learn what kind of life you want instead.

It doesnt matter what the event was, what matter is that now you are storing these memories and they are causing you problems now. And you have formed beliefs about me as a result. The fix is to unlock the memories and find the beliefs attached. Then look at the behaviours and transform them. Self reflection empowers you by learning how this belief came into being.



I empower women to heal their emotional and physical pain

from past and present negative events and situations that are keeping them stuck in stress.

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I help women who are stressed, unhappy and dissatisfied

with their lives and themselves

and want to change but don't know how.

I guide you through a process of self discovery so you can

uncover your happiness and learn how to create the life you want.


© 2020 Dianna Lee Graves 

   Peterborough, Ontario, Canada


The information contained in this website is strictly limited to the modification of beliefs. The purpose is to engage the mind/body’s natural self-healing processes in order to complement, not replace, usual, customary, and reasonable medical treatment and medical care by qualified medical practitioners. Dianna Lee Graves does not diagnose medical conditions nor treat, heal, or cure any disease, illness, physical disability, medical problem or mental illness, whether chronic or acute. Treatment modalities are not a replacement for appropriate medical advice, medical attention or professional mental health care and should not be treated as such.